What to Expect: Date Etiquette Guide

I often get asked, “What can I expect?” or “This is my first time—what happens now?” If these thoughts sound familiar, this page is for you. Here’s a little guidance on how to make our time together as smooth and enjoyable as possible.

  1. Understanding Companionship
    As your companion, I’m here to share a meaningful, enjoyable experience with you. Our time together is about connection, not about any assumptions beyond that. Kindly avoid making any references to explicit acts in your messages, as doing so will lead to your message being ignored.

  2. First Contact
    When reaching out, share a bit about yourself, where you’re from, and what you’re looking for, keeping it respectful and clear. I do require screening for private meetings—simply provide your LinkedIn or references from other providers. If this isn’t something you’re comfortable with, you may need to find someone with a more lenient process. Screening helps ensure we both feel secure and comfortable.

  3. Scheduling
    For our first meeting, I recommend booking at least two hours together so we can relax and enjoy our time. If two hours isn’t possible, one hour is fine too. Booking in advance makes scheduling easier for both of us, especially if you’re flexible about timing.

  4. Your Arrival and My Gift
    When we meet, please have the donation in a plain envelope and leave it in sight at the beginning of our time together. If you prefer using CashApp or Venmo, please take care of this before our meeting begins.

  5. Good Hygiene & Presentation
    Arriving freshly showered and well-groomed helps create a pleasant atmosphere for both of us. If you’re coming a long way, I’m more than happy to let you freshen up with a shower here. And a friendly reminder—fresh breath goes a long way! If you’d like a little help in the shower, I’m happy to join you. 😊

  6. Dining Together
    I’d love to join you for dinner or drinks, but please note that my regular rates still apply during our time together. See my "Investment" page for details.

  7. Phone Calls
    If you need to reach me by phone, please respect that I’m often busy and don’t always have my phone nearby. If I don’t answer, feel free to leave a message, and I’ll get back to you as soon as possible.

  8. Kindly Avoid Certain Habits
    I don’t smoke or use any substances, so I ask that we keep our time together free from any drugs or smoking.

  9. Relax and Enjoy
    Most importantly, come ready to unwind, enjoy, and be yourself. This time is for you, so take a breath, relax, and enjoy being cared for—you deserve it!

Thank you for taking the time to read these guidelines. Following these steps helps make our time together smooth and enjoyable for both of us, and I look forward to creating a memorable experience with you.